साचो माया हुन्छ र?

[embolus]

मैले आज भोली निकै नै सोच्ने गर्छु के साचो माया हुन्छ र? कि देखवतिपना मात्र हो?

म first year मा हुने बेला एउटा केटी मन पर्थयो धेरै चोट purpose गर्छु भनेर आत पनि गरे तर गर्न सकेन खोइ के भो क भो जहिले पनि purpose गर्छ भनेर राती सुत्ने बेला bed म निकै सोच्थे म येस्तो भन्छु त्यस्तो भन्छु भनेर सोच्दा सोच्दै निद्र लगेको थाहै पौदिन थिए।

खोइ के भयो क भयो उत बाट राम्रो response न देखेर हो कि किन हो मेरो मन मर्दै गयो अनि अहिले त मलाई अर्को उस्को साथो पो मन पर्न लगेको छ मैले पहिले धेरै चोटि सुनेको थिए तर मलाई अहिले तेस्ताइ भाई रहेको छ ।

मलाई थाहा छ तपाईं हरु ले मलाई कस्तो केटा रहिछ केटी मन परौदै हिंड्ने भनेर तर म के भन्छु भने life यस्तै रहिछ त्यो भएन त यो यो भएन त त्यो मान्छे हरु ले भन्ने गर्छन True Love हुन्छ भनेर खोइ मलाई त लगि राह् छैन ।

मलाई पनि केटी मन पारी रहेको बेला त जे पनि गर्न मन लाग्छ तर २-४ हफ्त पछि त्यो सब कुरा हराई हाल्छ।

मेरो class म देख्छु pair हरु को तमासा उनि हरु लाई लाग्छ उनि हरु नै भए कोइ चहिदैन जस्तो गरी दुई जना मात्र हिंड्ने अनि २-४ महिना पछी break up भएर एक अर्क को कुरा कतदै हिंड्ने ।

के तेइ साचो माया हो, जुन पहिले we are great couple भन्ने हरु एक अर्क को कुरा कत्दै गर्को देख्दा येस्तै confusion ले गर्दा कहिले कहिले सोच्ने गर्छु के सचो माया हुन्छ र?

अब आएर Valentine Day रे खोइ के के डे छन छन मलाई त झन क लाग्छ भने Valentine Day म pair up भएको त झन २ महिना पनि राम्रो सँग जादैन जस्तो लाग्छ ।

मलाई त यो लभ सव देखवतिपना जस्तो लाग्छ रेस्टुराँ मा एक अर्का लाइ खुवौने, class म दुबै जना सँग छिर्ने अनि सँगै निस्कने कुनै कुरा मनै परेको हुँदैन तर कुरा मानि हाल्ने तर थाहा छ यस्तै कुरा हरु accumulate हुन्छ अनि ज्वालामुखी भएर एक दिन फुत्छ अनि त झापद हाना हान ।

के येइ सचो माया हो? म confuse भाई रहेको छु please कसैले मलाई मार्ग दर्शन गराई देउ न।

[RAAZ]

Well embolus, nothing much to say on this because in some way you are right but its not the same in all cases. There are examples where lovers love each other for 6-7 years and end up happily marrying. That's where true love is found. Also, sorry to say but some have to break up due to some circumstances. Its not in all loves that they have fun for few months and then they break up. I know, not in all cases, but in some cases we can find true love which these days is ofcourse hard to find.

[Sarensa]

Its true that its very difficult to get the one that u would like to give ur whole life to. May be the pair up and break up in the because they realise that he/she is not the one for them after all now-a-days its easy to pair up and break up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But I think one should not play with others feelings isn't it?

[SPRimal]

true love is like a ghost which everybody talks but has never seen

theory ra practical dherai farak kura ho.........................


manchhu ma theory lai exactly practical garchhu bhanera kahile sakidaina tara theory ko basis ma practical garchhu bhanne ho bhane majale sakinchha ra tyo best pani hunchha,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

so, bhane jasto thyakkai nabhaya pani almost bhane jasto garna sakinchha.....................pheri bina kada ko phool ko kalpana garnu pani ta ek bhool ho ni haina.......................

so, exactly ghost nabhete pani almost ghost jastai ta pauna sakinchha bho!!!! ki kaso.....................ahile payeko chhaina bhanera hatarinu pardaina kya,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,kunai din na ulle nai khojdai aaune ho ki ????????????????????

lets hope so..................................

aasha garau chadai nai GHOST jastai bhetios!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HAPPY VALENTINE DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[flirt]

Love:
Question was: Do real love exist?
Well if you think from both side it is difficult to get one and very rare. Lucky if you have one.
But say love in a sense then 2~3 months love has other word called infactuation that generates due to intimacy which fades away quickly. 1~5 years relationship then break up means lack of understanding, 5~10 years relationship and break up means understanding but broken commitment, beyong 10 years means understanding, commitment, responsibility. Love is part in all of them and can only survive in mutual harmony.
If you love and quite easy to break up then is it love? From my point of view, love is that you give not that you take. So love is present in all atmosphere. Mechanical relationship is not love. It is a timepass.
And yes love do exist that remains forever in heart, mind and soul.

[CSF]

embolus, its a very tough question... even I don't have any GF and don't know whethere there is a true love or not just like SPRimal said its a unseen ghost much talked about but never seen.

until and unles you get one you can't say it is present or absent. You are having infatuation may be still best had to be happened to you. Don't worry

WAIT & WATCH

[Ramri]

I have also seen my friends calling its true love when they fall in love and after few year starts fighting all the time for small things like he didn't call me today, he talked to someone with cheerful eyes, insecurity, mistrust all it develops.

People do say there is true love, if it is there then it must be on in a trillian couples.

I don't think true love exist in most of the love birds, its the compromise that counts a lot and respect for each other. If this two things are present than you would be most ideal couple.

People always go after the things that has not been owned by them once they get it they just ignore it just like a man take out the shoes and throw out of the room.