
The quality of our life is the qualilty of our communication both with ourself and with others. I truly believe in this thought.
Many times we try to communicate with some one and when he does not understand, we say, he is junk, he doesn't understand. I believe that intention means nothings , results means everything for communication.Lets say, if i say to u " I love you" and u get all upset, then , why not change the way i talk with u, and say in more concerned way and what if that doesn't work, i say it differently until my point is understood. I don't intend u to love me, but understand my feelings for you.Does that ring a bell ?
What we speak is only 20% of communication, rest is tonality, body posture,gestures,breathing patterns. Why not learn to improve on it.Simple changes create lasting results in long term,isn't it?.There is a whole separate science called Neuro-Linguistic Technology dedicated to the effective use of communication.
It is mainly used by the sales person, but i believe would be equally effective to anyone interested in expressing oneself in a much empowering way to others.