Insecurity Prevails

At some point you feel like you can do anything for so called your soul mate, but when you realized that things are not going the way you dream insecurity prevails.

Its a story of my friend who was enchanted by a man, she thought she found the man she would live with for the rest of her life.

Then he went to India for a year and she somehow knew that he was entertaining with someone else and during that period he ignore her calls, mails, offline messages.

Now that man is again trying to have a good time chat and may be intended to continue the relation.

But her insecurity has become the biggest barrier and she think she wouldn't continue the relation though she wants as at some point of her life she liked him.

Every evening as and when we talk over the phone she talks the same things. And advocate that he ignored at some point either he wants to come back because he might not have got the good girl or he doesn't have choice.

Since she has been hurt due to his ignorance she thinks she won't go with him until her wounded heart believe that he has really changed.

I think I respect her decision. Relation is not the necessity nor it can be compare with materialistic things, its the feeling that two hearts sharing the beats of loving each other for eternity.

We never know which one is the best pal for the rest of our lives. I think if we don't take things selfishly we may omit our mistakes.

In the quest for searching the better one we might ignore/unnotice the best soul mate siting next to us. It is a paradox of our lives. When selfishness prevails result could be catastrophic.

Of the billions people living in this world million pairs of heart beats together and more than half of them gets arrythimas as well.

Few things are meant to be happened for a while and also meant to be short lived.

People can take charge over the life as they want provided they remain faithful to each other, especially for love.