Sexual Relationship with blood relatives.

[nikkig]

i am a 19 year girl, and last weekend i had an unprotected sex with my first cousin. He didn't ejaculated inside my vagina but we did a lot of oral act.
Please tell me are there any side-effects of having sex with blood relatives.

I am really ashamed and surely wont do it future but, i am worried about what i did last time.

Pleas help me out.


Nikki

[nikkig]

people please help me......

[Doctor]

Dear Nikki,

Having sex is a perfectly normal. However among blood relatives is prohibited in most of the countries. Even if act is performed with the consent it is still considered against the law.

I congratulate that you are determined not to have such act in the future which is good for both of you.

N.B. Having unprotected sex in today's era is inviting your death via deadly disease such as HIV/AIDS.

Originally Posted by nikkig

...are there any side-effects of having sex with blood relatives.

Sex is not a disease or drug which would have side effect per se. But if we considered that way then following would be consequences:

• Unwanted Pregnancy (Any penetrative intercourse can lead to pregnancy even if the partner have ejaculated outside the vagina as pre-secretion from the penis contain sperm). You have chance of getting pregnant in this condition.
• Sexually Transmitted Disease (STD): This are the infectious disease that can be transmitted from one person to another through sexual contact. You can get following disease through unprotected sex:
  • AIDS
  • Bacterial Vaginosis
  • Chancroid
  • Chlamydia
  • Gonorrhea
  • Genital Warts
  • Granuloma
  • Hepatitis
  • Herpes
  • Lymphogranuloma
  • Molluscum
  • Pelvic Inflammatory Disease
  • Pubic Lice - Scabies
  • Syphilis
  • Trichomoniasis
  • Urinary Tract Infection
  • Vaginitis
  • Yeast Infection
• Feeling of guilt: Since this act was performed among blood relative then you will be undergoing through a feeling of guilt. That depend upon how you have been brought up and also affect your cultural background. You have to release this guilt and determined not to repeat in the future.

Originally Posted by nikkig

I am really ashamed and surely wont do it future but, i am worried about what i did last time.

It is obvious that you would undergo through a series of guilt feeling and you will have to overcome. You can not change your past but you have learnt a lesson not to repeat in the future.

Your situation will wane off over the time if it doesn't I would recommend you to seek a psychiatrist consultation.

I hope this information was helpful.

Useful link for STD:
Sexually Transmitted Diseases - Information from CDC
Sexually Transmitted Diseases Resource
MedlinePlus: Sexually Transmitted Diseases
Sexually transmitted disease - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

[nikkig]

thank you doctor for your valuable reply.

I think now me and my cousin have to sit together and solve it out. We have already gone through pregnancy check and its negative, but as i said earlier, that we did a lot of oral act and swallowed a bit of each others fluids while oral act, so can there be any consequences ?

[sarosem]

Originally Posted by nikkig

thank you doctor for your valuable reply.

I think now me and my cousin have to sit together and solve it out. We have already gone through pregnancy check and its negative, but as i said earlier, that we did a lot of oral act and swallowed a bit of each others fluids while oral act, so can there be any consequences ?

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Semen is the fluid containing sperm that is ejaculated during sexual excitement. It is composed of seminal fluid from the seminal vesicles, fluid from the prostate, and fluid from the Cowper's gland. Sperm move from the testicles to the seminal vesicles through tubes called the vas deferens. In the seminal vesicles, they mix with other fluids to form semen.

These fluids contain many kinds of chemicals and minerals, including calcium, chlorine, magnesium, nitrogen, vitamin B12, and zinc.

Although there is no chance for pregnancy to happen from oral sex, unprotected oral sex puts both partners at risk for a number of sexually transmitted infections. These risks are relatively lower than those of unprotected vaginal or anal sex. Using a condom for oral sex can further reduce the risks.

swallowing can transmit HIV as well and also transmit other sexually transmitted infections too


neither vaginal fluid (the liquid women always produce when they're sexually excited) nor female ejaculate (the liquid that some women squirt during orgasm from particularly intense G-spot stimulation) have any negative health effects by themselves, so swallow away provided you're not swallowing any microbes with them.

In other words, the only problem would be if your partner has a sexually transmitted infection (STI). It's possible to contract a wide variety through oral sex, so it's a good idea to get tested regularly. Bacterial infections can be cured with antibiotics if you catch them early enough, and if you're vaccinated for Hepatitis B it's no longer a concern. There is a low risk of contracting HIV through oral sex, meaning that it is possible, but this isn't one of the ways the vast majority of people worldwide caught the virus. Herpes and HPV can also be passed on, especially if she has any sores.


If you both test negative and you absolutely trust that your partner is monogamous and doesn't share needles, there's no danger.


i hope this will solve ur problem!!