[bishnurath]

we all may be having same neurology but the way we use it is totally different
nd thats one thing which makes a lot of differences
human action is the most unpredictable phenomenon
nd the nature nd type of action is shaped in part by the environment in which the mind developed

for the ones who want peace nd calm living as 'creatures of circumstances' could be a better option (not always)
'to set examples' u need to act as u ve pointed out

to act one has to have courage nd positive attitude - an anticipation of positive outcome,
fundamentals should be strong( "dreams" should be realistic)
shud hav vision of longterm future,
preparation to tackle obstacles
and
preparation to face failure.
nd FAILURE is a term reserved for those who act